Before the matching

Know what you're actually looking for.

One-to-one relationship coaching with our team — to understand your patterns, get clear on what you genuinely need, and show up ready for something real. Available now, before matchmaking begins.

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Why this exists

The clearest people make the best matches.

Most people don't struggle in dating because there's something wrong with them. They struggle because they keep reaching for the same "type" — the one that feels familiar, even when it hasn't worked. The pattern is quiet, and it's hard to see from the inside.

Clarity Coaching is a chance to step back and look honestly at how you connect: what you actually need in a partner, what keeps showing up in your relationships, and whether the person you're drawn to is the person who's right for you. It's the work that makes everything after it — including matchmaking — far more likely to land.

If you've taken our free compatibility assessment, your session starts there. Your coach reads through your results with you and builds the conversation from what they reveal.

Two ways to begin

Choose the depth that feels right.

The Clarity Session
A single deep session
$350
One 60-minute session · paid once

A focused, one-to-one conversation with one of our coaches — the right first step if you want an honest outside read before deciding anything.

  • One 60-minute private video call with your coach
  • A walk-through of your compatibility assessment
  • An honest read on your patterns and what to look for
  • One clear next step to leave with
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Sessions are led by our relationship coaches — including co-founder Dale Hicks — and delivered by private video call. After payment, we'll email you a link to schedule your session within 24 hours.

A head start, not an extra cost

Your coaching counts toward membership.

Every dollar you spend on Clarity Coaching is credited in full toward The Connection or The Journey when you join as a founding member — available through December 2026. So if you decide to move into matchmaking, you've already begun. Nothing is spent twice.

How it works

Three simple steps.

1

Book

Choose a single session or the series and reserve your time. Payment is handled securely.

2

Meet

Talk one-to-one with your coach by private video, starting from your assessment results.

3

Decide

Leave with real clarity. Continue on your own, or step into matchmaking with your coaching credited.

This is for you if

  • You're considering matchmaking but aren't sure you're ready
  • You keep ending up with the same wrong "type"
  • You want an honest outside read before investing more
  • You'd like to understand your patterns, not just your preferences

This is not

  • Therapy or clinical care — it's coaching for relationship clarity
  • A promise of a match or a specific outcome
  • A requirement before applying for membership
  • A sales call — it's real work on you, whatever you choose next
Your coaches

Guidance you can trust.

Our coaching is led by co-founder Dale Hicks, a relationship and life coach who has spent years helping people understand themselves and their relationships with a clarity they didn't expect — seeing the patterns beneath the surface, and naming what someone actually needs rather than what they think they want.

As we grow, Dale is joined by a small, carefully chosen team of relationship coaches who share that approach. Whoever you're matched with brings the same intention — the same insight that shapes every introduction we make. Clarity Coaching is a way to work with it directly.

Questions, answered

No. Clarity Coaching is relationship coaching, not clinical care. It's focused on patterns, readiness, and what you're looking for in a partner. If you're seeking support for your mental health, we'd encourage you to see a licensed professional.
Not at all. Many people do a session or two purely for clarity and stop there. If you do decide to join matchmaking, your coaching is credited in full toward membership — but that choice is entirely yours.
By private video call. Once your payment is received, you'll get a link to choose a time that works for you, and a video link is created automatically.
Yes — and we hope you will. If you've taken the free compatibility assessment, your coach starts the session from your results. If you haven't yet, it takes about five minutes and makes your first session far richer.
Whatever you pay for Clarity Coaching is applied, dollar for dollar, toward The Connection or The Journey when you enroll as a founding member through December 2026. It functions as a head start on membership rather than an additional expense.

Ready to get clear?

Start with a single session, or take the free assessment first — either way, you'll know yourself better by the end.

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